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Post by Guest Fri Jul 03, 2009 12:48 pm

My girlfriend is having some really big problems and I have been trying to help her. She has had these problems since before I met her. She is addicted to coke and she is anorexic. I just don't want her to get hurt or die. I love her a lot. Also we have a really weird relationship since we are poly. We both have boyfriends too but they dont really know eachother but they know about each other. She is planing on getting married to her boyfriend but staying with me too. But the relationship stuff really isn't that big of a problem since none of us care about how many people are in this relationship. I just want to help her but she knows that I know where to get any drug she wants. She has been asking me again for drugs. I love her and most of the time I end up giving her drugs in the end but i have never given her coke its always something different and not addictive but still I give her drugs. I love her and I want her to be happy. Also at the same time I am do a lot of drugs as well but I dont have a problem with them really. I am not addicted to anything like she is. I guess maybe everything in this situation is messed up a bit.

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Post by Cjanz Fri Jul 03, 2009 12:59 pm

I think you need to set up some priorities. First, it seems like it's very important for you to maintain this friendship. A part of being friends is always going to deal with confrontation. I know it's probably not the most enjoyable thing to do, but you have to talk to her.

Second, is that you need to be considering yourself. It doesn't matter if you're not addicted to drugs, because even messing with them in the first place is asking for trouble. I advise you to think critically about her as a friend, and how drugs have affected her. Learn from her mistakes, help her correct them, and don't follow that path.
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Post by Donald Williams Fri Jul 03, 2009 1:00 pm

I had this same problem with a close friend of mine. It was actually when he hit rock bottom that he realized he needed to change. I would suggest the best way to go about it is to talk about it with her, and make her realize what's going to happen to her if she continues. Also, you can tell her that there is a way out as well.
Does she know she could die anytime soon?
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Post by Guest Fri Jul 03, 2009 1:43 pm

Yes she knows what could happen and i tell her to stop because i care about her and there has been others that say the same thing to her. I have told her she could do all kinds of other things then coke. I dont really know what else to do. But yeah i have talked to her many times.

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Post by VioletVenom Mon Jul 06, 2009 7:07 pm

just gotta be there for her mans. Listen to her and what made her become this way.
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