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My inability to get a girlfriend
Who else has the same issue? Girls think I'm pretty awesome at first and then when they realize I don't smoke or do drugs or really anything risky they give up.
VioletVenom- Global Moderator
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Re: My inability to get a girlfriend
Just give it time, you'll find the right person eventually. You've just got to have patience until you find the right connection with a person.
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VioletVenom wrote:Who else has the same issue? Girls think I'm pretty awesome at first and then when they realize I don't smoke or do drugs or really anything risky they give up.
OHMIGOSH!! I thought you WERE a girl!!! Sorry about that misunderstanding.
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I am a girl. A gay one
VioletVenom- Global Moderator
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You'll find the right person someday.
It's often better to go years without a relationship than moving onto someone new after each breakup. It allows you to be more analytical and to know when it really is the right person.
It's often better to go years without a relationship than moving onto someone new after each breakup. It allows you to be more analytical and to know when it really is the right person.
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It's all right. I think all of us have relationship problems to some extent.
but I'm sure you'll find the right person.
but I'm sure you'll find the right person.
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Cjanz wrote:You'll find the right person someday.
It's often better to go years without a relationship than moving onto someone new after each breakup. It allows you to be more analytical and to know when it really is the right person.
He definitely has it right there. I haven't had a girl on my lips for an entire year now (or it will be a year like august 10th). A lot of people are like "omg, I'm so sorry", but I don't worry about it. I've met a lot of really cool girls online, most which live nowhere near me, but regardless of that, it always leaves hope for later.
Like I keep saying, you guys are just in your mid teens. Me too, lol. There are many many years left to go, so I wouldn't rush anything. Eventually something will just be like BLAM.
About the no drinking/drugs/etc, I actually admire that. I really don't think I would date a girl who wasn't clean. I met a great friend on a sXe group on facebook. She's had bad luck with boyfriends and has pretty much decided that she refuses to date anyone who's not edge (she doesn't care if they rep edge or not)
Don't settle for someone you don't really want and don't try to be something you're not. Neither will work. I'm a nerd at heart. I use big words sometimes, and that really upsets some people (I've lost "friends" that way, haha). It's who I am, so I still go with it, and some people I've met have actually found it to be charming, intelligent, and just fun, lol.
There are sooo many people out there, so don't be shy and don't be afraid to be you.
Umm...you can probably find online groups for people with your similar beliefs. I would check facebook for sure (add me if you've got it ).
Other than that, something will surely come up sometime, lol.
I ramble to a greattt extent, haha.
The bottom line is: I can't find a girl either, so don't worry about it :p
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I don't know if your name is Violet, but I'm just going to call you Violet, 'cause I love that name. Anyways. The trick to finding a gf or bf is not looking for it. Just go through life enjoying what you have already, and not being miserable about what you don't have. The perfect person will find you eventually.
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Sometimes the best thing to do in this situation is just waiting for the right person, it sucks, but usually that means you can stay yourself and let the right person find you.
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It'll seem that just as soon as you're completely happy alone, someone will find you and change your mind :p
What a strange world we live in.
What a strange world we live in.
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Spishnittlestick wrote:Cjanz wrote:You'll find the right person someday.
It's often better to go years without a relationship than moving onto someone new after each breakup. It allows you to be more analytical and to know when it really is the right person.
He definitely has it right there. I haven't had a girl on my lips for an entire year now (or it will be a year like august 10th). A lot of people are like "omg, I'm so sorry", but I don't worry about it. I've met a lot of really cool girls online, most which live nowhere near me, but regardless of that, it always leaves hope for later.
Like I keep saying, you guys are just in your mid teens. Me too, lol. There are many many years left to go, so I wouldn't rush anything. Eventually something will just be like BLAM.
About the no drinking/drugs/etc, I actually admire that. I really don't think I would date a girl who wasn't clean. I met a great friend on a sXe group on facebook. She's had bad luck with boyfriends and has pretty much decided that she refuses to date anyone who's not edge (she doesn't care if they rep edge or not)
Don't settle for someone you don't really want and don't try to be something you're not. Neither will work. I'm a nerd at heart. I use big words sometimes, and that really upsets some people (I've lost "friends" that way, haha). It's who I am, so I still go with it, and some people I've met have actually found it to be charming, intelligent, and just fun, lol.
There are sooo many people out there, so don't be shy and don't be afraid to be you.
Umm...you can probably find online groups for people with your similar beliefs. I would check facebook for sure (add me if you've got it ).
Other than that, something will surely come up sometime, lol.
I ramble to a greattt extent, haha.
The bottom line is: I can't find a girl either, so don't worry about it :p
Only a year? Amateur, lol.
I've only had 2 girlfriends in my life. 1 was for a week(4 years ago), the other was for a day(about 5 months ago). Hell, I don't care if I'm single. I'm not sure about everyone else, but I tend to get to know people before I even think about dating them, in which case I've become friends with them. And I don't stand well with risking a friendship just to change relationship status. And it's not just the relationship with the person you like. Right now, if I ended up dating the girl I like, I'm sure that I'd have 2 other friends that will probably shun me(at least) for it. And I'm not really up for ruining a few friendships just to put a gamble on another. Knowing my family's luck with gambles, I'd wind up friendless.
And I seriously cannot see how these little [pardon my language, and no offense intended] whores and man-whores can go around and date a new person every weeks. If you look at their percentage of their "single"ness within the span of a school year, it'd probably be about .5%. How can people be that apathetic? Seriously! The date a person for a week, you dump them without warning or reason, and move on to another person. I just don't get it....
Oh, and when you kiss a person, you're kissing every person they've ever kissed.
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somedeadidiot wrote:
Only a year? Amateur, lol.
I've only had 2 girlfriends in my life. 1 was for a week(4 years ago), the other was for a day(about 5 months ago). Hell, I don't care if I'm single. I'm not sure about everyone else, but I tend to get to know people before I even think about dating them, in which case I've become friends with them. And I don't stand well with risking a friendship just to change relationship status. And it's not just the relationship with the person you like. Right now, if I ended up dating the girl I like, I'm sure that I'd have 2 other friends that will probably shun me(at least) for it. And I'm not really up for ruining a few friendships just to put a gamble on another. Knowing my family's luck with gambles, I'd wind up friendless.
And I seriously cannot see how these little [pardon my language, and no offense intended] whores and man-whores can go around and date a new person every weeks. If you look at their percentage of their "single"ness within the span of a school year, it'd probably be about .5%. How can people be that apathetic? Seriously! The date a person for a week, you dump them without warning or reason, and move on to another person. I just don't get it....
Oh, and when you kiss a person, you're kissing every person they've ever kissed.
I believe I trump you, deary. Never ever had a date.
Am I one of the people that would shun you for dating her?
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somedeadidiot wrote:
Oh, and when you kiss a person, you're kissing every person they've ever kissed.
When you put it that way it is just a little creepy. But I have never kissed anyone so I don't have to worry about it... yet...
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dolphingirl wrote:somedeadidiot wrote:
Oh, and when you kiss a person, you're kissing every person they've ever kissed.
When you put it that way it is just a little creepy. But I have never kissed anyone so I don't have to worry about it... yet...
Ha, trust me...no worries :p
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Yeah. If I had a boyfriend at my age though my mom and dad would probably be upset because they think if you are under age 16 or so it is "not right" to have a boyfriend. Personally I think that they can be a little too protective. It kind of annoys me. Ok, it really annoys me.
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somedeadidiot wrote:lol, That's called LOVE. Better protective than abusive, eh?
Could be none existent? I love parents that don't give a shit.
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Explain that please. I always thought that love was an emotion...
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Depends on the context. Could be something you slap on your f*ck buddy
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dolphingirl wrote:Explain that please. I always thought that love was an emotion...
"Love is an ability- not an emotion."
And I'm pretty sure that's one of the few non-George Carlin quotes I use regularly.
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YOU use NON-George Carlin quotes?!?!?! I didn't know that was possible with you!!
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LOL George Carlin is dah shit
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