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Post by ZIMMER1994 Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:20 am

This may sound pathetic, but my girlfriend just told me that sometimes she wishes I was different. When I tried to ask what she meant, she very calmly said "goodnight zachary", I said "oh, ok, uh goodnight baby. I love you."... then all I heard was "bye." click. I feel like I was just kicked in the stomach and I don't know if I'm depressed, pissed, lonely, broken, numb, or all of the above. People hate what they don't understand. Well, I don't understand life.
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Post by Cjanz Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:54 am

Do you think you did something to instigate that?

Often we don't, but whenever I don't know if I've done something I retrace every action involving (or lack thereof) her and myself to see if I can sort out the linkage.

Things like this also tend to pass. She may wake up feeling completely opposite/forget about it.
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Post by ZIMMER1994 Mon Feb 21, 2011 1:15 am

ya I've done that. nothing I can understand. I believe what she meant was my religious views which we werent even talking about. This also kills me because part of why I love her so much is the way that I thought she was able to just accept me. I'm just starting to feel very broken, very unwanted, and very very tired. thanks though man I appreciate it
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Post by MasonK565 Mon Feb 21, 2011 10:57 am

I have been through the same situations you are going through right now man. It stinks. I find myself going back like Cjanz and trying find what I have possibly done for her to act like this. It is usually something very small, and she will be completely over it the next day.

I go through the same feelings when this occurs, just wondering why it had to be like this. It is like they leave you hanging feeling like you got kicked in the gut not being able to sleep because you are worrying about her. I would never do something to that to her, just stop talking to someone because you are upset. I worried about that. Worried about how I wouldn't do that to her, but she would to me. But the last time this has happened has been for quite some time, and we are doing well right now.

How often does she say she wishes you were different?
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Post by Cjanz Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:00 pm

I hate that feeling more than anything in the world. Just..not knowing what you've done, even if it's minuscule, is so painful.

All I do is worry at that point...
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Post by JJwells Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:40 pm

I feel for you man thats horrible. It is always a really empty feeling not knowing what is wrong or what you did. I hope things get better and she is able to except you or something..
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Post by Donald Williams Mon Feb 21, 2011 5:38 pm

ZIMMER1994 wrote:This may sound pathetic, but my girlfriend just told me that sometimes she wishes I was different. When I tried to ask what she meant, she very calmly said "goodnight zachary", I said "oh, ok, uh goodnight baby. I love you."... then all I heard was "bye." click. I feel like I was just kicked in the stomach and I don't know if I'm depressed, pissed, lonely, broken, numb, or all of the above. People hate what they don't understand. Well, I don't understand life.

Has she been acting a little strange over the past few days, or was this a completely sudden occurrence?

Also, has she had any changes in responsibilities or has she had any newfound stress in her life recently? It's not always about you, sometimes a change in scenery in college or a prolonged amount of time away can cause a couple to begin to split apart.
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Post by Cjanz Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:47 pm

Did you ever come to terms with the issue?
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